Self-concious about my fat upper arms?

So basically, my upper arms in relation to the rest of my body are disgustingly fat, they look like they belong to someone who's 10-20 kilos heavier than me! The make me so self concious... I know I can't lose weight in target areas, but surely there's some way I can make it not seem so bad? And please don't suggest that I 'accept it' 'love myself as I am' or 'ignore it', I am 17 years old and have spent several years struggling with my eating so none of that is going to happen, I just need a solution...