UGLY HAIR !!!!!!???? ?

My hair is disgustingly horrible. I hate it. I have latina hair (I'm Latina/Italian) and it's dark brown. It's really ugly. I have it 3-4 inches below my shoulder. Everytime I want to leave it down, it gets KINKS IN IT. how can I fix this? I have frizzy ugly horrible curly/wavy hair. There is no shine to it. It looks like it's losing it's color too, or getting a dead hair kind of color. What should I do?