Can I or My boyfriend get genital HSV-1?

Hi, about four days ago i gave my boyfriend oral sex and the next morning I got a cold soar. I'm wondering if I could have givin him genital hsv-1? Also we had intercoarse after so I wonder if I could have gotten it as well? He gets cold soares lik twice a year and this is my second cold soar my last one being a couple years about. This morning he got a little red dot(really small) on his penis, I also think he might be a little paranoid. Overall im worried if either of us have genital herpes. When will we know?